Live for the DAY....

Its Monday again, I feel this is the day when most of the people think rational. I was chatting with my colleague and the obvious question popped out was 'How was your weekend?'. Since mine was pretty good with watching a Tennis tournament, I expected a similar kind of answer....

Suddenly he became emotional and said that one of his close aunt who was 39 died because of heart attack!... She was very close to his mom and unfortunately he couldn't convey that message to her as she was in Singport trip...

He was feeling so bad and started saying, why do we work so hard in our job? Blink of an eye we are gone someday! Life seems so uncertain sometimes...

I responded him with the sentence, 'Everybody lives with a word called HOPE', n makes living!

He gave a reply for that... in his own words,
"Dont want to sound philosophical but i always consider that life of a mortal is a misery and everyone needs to find a handle to lead one out of the tunnel. maybe for some that handle is hope. i dont know. i am just rambling."

That reply shook me off..

Monday morning, I hate to wake up! or I hate to see myself working for someone else without knowing exactly why am I doing that!... Like the work - NO, for Satisfaction - NO, for Money - YES(to some extent). This is the scenario of my IT life! ... Things u love to do can only be considered as a hobby and have to squeeze time for that!

Again, Blink of an eye...... ANYTHING can happen!!... Yes, life is too short to wait for tomorrow! Sometimes I feel, "Live for the day" is very true...

Again, I am just RAMBILNG...........with HOPE.

D A N C E !!..

What is your preferred form of exercise? Do you like to work out on the treadmill at the gym or would you rather climb onto a stationary bike at home? Or are you the type who gets bored with a rote exercise routine? The good news is that exercise doesn't have to be a chore, and there are options to suit all tastes... Just taking a daily walk outside is one way to beat the monotony of an exercise plan, something more active, entertaining, and fun -- DANCE!

Whether it be classical dance, square dance, hip hop, the waltz, or belly dancing, to name just a few, dancing offers a fabulous workout. And while dance may not take care of all your health needs, it comes with some surprising benefits...

Dancing helps strengthen your legs and knees, and it can also slow down the process of osteoporosis. And the benefits to heart health are even better. If you dance regularly, especially if you can get in an hour several times a week, you can lower your heart rate, drop your blood pressure, and boost the good HDL cholesterol while lowering the bad LDL cholesterol!!

In addition, dancing burns calories and lots of them. A one-hour dance session can help you drop between 400 and 800 calories, depending on how vigorous your dances are. Those figures rival the number of calories you can burn riding a bike, walking, or swimming laps.

Dancing also comes with the additional benefits of a group activity by offering opportunities to socialize and build relationships, both of which influence our overall outlook on life..

Then again, if you are someone who doesn't feel comfortable dancing in public, you can dance in private... All you need to do is to crank up the radio at home, move the coffee table out of the way, do a few stretches to limber up, and move to the beat of your favorite music. By the way, you don't have to stick to a specific dance step either. It is the movement that is important!

DANCE for yourself rather for public!.......... Experience the beautiful involuntary smile at the end of it!!... Enjoyyyyyyy

Why do girls like naughty guys ??

A question which cannot have a convincing answer!!... Lot of people agree with this. WHY ?? ....

We have seen it thru years.... In a group of girls with similar nature, one will like flirting n easy going guy, one will like gentle n humorous guy, one will like serious n ambitious guy.... Each girl will have different philosophy of life.

Flirting guy may give fun n happiness, gentle guy can give smooth life n happiness, serious guy can give achievements n happiness..... but what a girl needs in the end is happiness with the partner. Ask any girl, what kind of partner you want?... They will answer!.. but you can feel that they are not convinced about what they are saying!!... very few argue that they have the perfect specification for a perfect guy..... wait a minute!!... There is nothing called PERFECT in this world!!.. Everybody hopes that it WILL be perfect...

It is the known fact that girls do like to be in the company of naughty guys(which every guy can't be!)... may not be as partners! Again, the word NAUGHTY depends on the environment. For a township, it may be like using some hot words on gals.... For a metropolitan, its more than words...which may go up to some kind of actions.... Most of the girls go flattered when they get to meet a guy who can speak funny n make them laugh... well, not a bad quality at all !!..... Take care!

But the fact is, everybody have their evil part.... few take it out as they don't care about the results and few don't because they feel they don't want to hurt the other person. Again, everybody assume as they foresee the results of their actions which may or maynot be true!

NOW...ask guys what kind of girl they want? Normally u get an answer containing... girl should be beautiful, proper figure.... but deep down inside it is secondary!... guys are weaker when it comes to heart related matters! If a guy is really committed emotionally, then his partner will be the luckiest!... If not emotionally it should be physically... Then there is no guarantee.. God bless his partner! ....It may last few days, few months...well, keep guessing! Above all.. I have seen some guys, sooo good in faking that they are emotionally attached.... just it takes matter of time to realise that!

Quite often we see average looking couples are the happiest compared to most beautiful couples! It is also evident that we see a handsome guy with an average girl and vice versa.... But still some people live with dilemma that always a beautiful girl will strive for a handsome guy! Inside, everybody knows that physical attraction is secondary.

One of my elder says that HOPE is so beautiful.. when you have that in life.. Life is never boring. Hmmmm....YES indeed.....

All said and done.....Who doesn't want a shoulder to lean on!...and Everybody wants a fairy tale ending.....

".....AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER".....

God bless everybody.... :)

A lighter moment :
A perfect and shortest love story happened till now...

Boy : Darling!....Will you marry me ??(Question mark on his face)
Girl : NO!!
and They lived happily ever after.......